Letters from Home: Jen Kocourek ’92

Letters from Home Dear Bennies,

Life after graduation. You have been on a path since pre-school and now there is no scripted 4-year plan, no Christmas break, no more living next door to your friends. Transition can be a scary time, or it can be an amazing adventure. That is for you to choose.

I thought I would share a few things that I have learned since graduating from Saint Ben’s:

Surround yourself with good people and take turns celebrating each other.
Be a life-long learner. Paint, cook, travel, read!
Save for a rainy day.
Mentorship is so important for women. Take advantage of the Bennie Mentor program. I have met some amazing Bennies via this program!
Prayer is a powerful tool during good and tough times.
Most dream jobs take years to find. In the meantime, enjoy the journey, work hard, build trust and stay focused.
Everyone is on a different path and you are right where you are supposed to be.
There are no “ordinary Bennies.” EVERY ONE OF YOU has a great story to tell.
Every so often, make sure to unplug for a while and breathe.
Use Moisturizer every day. You will thank me in 20-30 years.
Volunteer, donate and give back – it feels good!
Spontaneous dance parties are great stress relievers.
Focus on your blessings.
Never miss a CSB/SJU Class Reunion. They are truly the happiest place on earth.
And always remember to shine your light!

Proud of you Bennies! You will accomplish great things!

Jen Kocourek ’92
CSB Alumnae Board President